Valentine

Today I’m going to see a taiko show with my partner for Valentine’s day c:
The wisteria plant is also getting bigger by the day.


Sometimes you just come from a narcissistic family where love has always been conditional and where they’ll always see you as the stupid one not deserving of respect and that’s okay…
You just gotta remember that it may feel like you’re the one in the wrong because it’s just you against a whole family which tight-knittedness is built around helping each other backing up abuse, but what you feel is still real and you don’t have to put up with all that and you can distance yourself and take breaks, especially when you’ve given multiple opportunities for closure.